Personalized One-to-One Premarital Mentoring
About the Program
Now that you are in a serious relationship or engaged and soon be married, you tend to look at the voyage ahead of you with lots of enthusiasm and sometimes with a little bit of skepticism. As you decide to set off on this ship together, as life partners, there are many new adventures you would explore. While some may be familiar routes that you easily cruise through, some others may give you the jitters of sailing in the unknown waters. Research points out that the biggest struggle during the first few years of marriage is due to unmet expectations. There is also much research available on couples, demonstrating that successful marriages are ones that use healthy relationship skills on an everyday basis.
The Premarital Preparation Program is a one-of-its-kind personalized online one-to-one mentoring program for couples who are contemplating getting married. It offers a safe and non-confrontational space for you and your partner to mutually understand the dynamics of ‘us’ in your relationship while embracing the ‘me’. It nudges you to delve deeper into your desires and ambitions and set clear expectations for each other on your journey together. It also helps you recognize areas where you can adapt to each other’s needs without dissolving your identity with techniques tailor-fit to your specific emotional and personal needs.
The guided conversations in this program will help you lay a strong foundation in your relationship by helping you discover each other deeply. It will also equip you with the essential relationship skills you both need as you turn a new leaf into your relationship as a couple.
This program is based on the science of intimate relationships and years of research-backed frameworks that are, derived, from what actually works in a thriving relationship and not based on general, idealistic projections of what a relationship should be. It includes personalized assessments of the couple’s relationship dynamics, stress maps, personality, strengths, growth areas, and much more.
Who's it for?
Dating To Marry
Couples in a serious relationship
who plan to get married
Engaged To Marry
Engaged couples
waiting for the wedding day!
We've Got You Covered!
PROVEN PRACTICAL SKILL-BASED METHODOLOGY BACKED BY DECADES OF RESEARCH
What To Expect?
Discover Expectations
Discover, articulate, and discuss your and your partner’s expectations, explore strengths and growth areas in a gentle and fun way to ensure smoother sailing in your foundation years as a married couple.
Understand Each Other’s Family of Origin
Learn how each of you has been shaped in your families of origin, discover your respective family backgrounds, and how they influence and shape your personality and views. It also helps you understand how to build your own family traditions.
Develop & Maintain Friendship
Discover how to blend fun and friendship into your marriage for decades. Find out what is important to you both and develop unity as a couple.
Understand Emotional, Physiological, Sexual Needs Leading to Intimacy
Learn how man’s and woman’s emotional and physical needs or expectations differ. Explore healthy ways to talk about your sex and intimacy feelings. Discover the magic of emotional intimacy and how that leads to more meaningful physical intimacy.
Personality and Communication
Discover each other’s personalities and become aware of your own and your partner’s communication style, which will help you bridge any gaps effectively in the future. Learn ways to turn towards each other rather than turning away, using simple tools and techniques to strengthen your communication skills in your relationship.
Conflict Management
Learn how to identify and address each other’s conflict and stress areas. Find out how to be empathetic towards your partner’s feelings, and also feel heard, respected, and understood yourself. You will understand how to resolve conflicts less stressfully and, in the process, grow closer.
Money Matters
Discover what money means to each other, money habits, learn skills to talk through money topics, establish roles and responsibilities, comfortably discuss concerns regarding finances & learn how to budget, plan, and manage your finances as a couple from day one.
Protecting Your Marriage
Learn to identify potential threats to your relationship and understand how to address areas that might make you and your relationship vulnerable. There are issues such as taking each other for granted, loneliness, infidelity, separation, and divorce, which need to be addressed appropriately in case a need arises.
Shared Meaning and Goals
Learn to clearly articulate aspirations and dreams closest to your heart and, in the process, be able to establish your personal, couple, and family goals together with your partner.
Our Pledge to Your Privacy Protection
100% PRIVACY OFFERED THROUGH OUR TERMS OF SERVICE AGREEMENT
What happens through the 12-weeks?
Connect With
Your Mentor
Set personalized objectives
Schedule program plan
Get oriented
Customise
Your Program
Personalized assessment
Map relationship dynamics
Discover growth areas
Begin Dyadic
Conversations
Personalized dialogues
Fun insightful exercises
Prioritize actions
Thrive As Your
Team Of Two
Simplify your relationship
Review Progress
Thrive together
What Other Participants Had to Say?
Flexible Payment Options
TO HELP EASE YOUR INVESTMENT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
How to Get Started?
Connect
CALL or WHATSAPP us at 9980082365 to connect with our marriage wellness mentor.
Schedule
Customize your mentoring needs, and schedule your program start date.
Start
Get started!
We understand that you may have further questions about the program. You may probably find the answer in the FAQ section below.
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Frequently asked Questions
You will find the answers to some of the most frequently asked questions about this program below. If you did not find the answer you were looking for, please write to us at team@thelittlethings.org.in and we’ll get in touch with answers.
These are the two prerequisites:
- That you are in a committed relationship currently.
- That you can converse in English.
This is a program designed for couples to work together to form their team-of-two, hence you and your partner’s willingness to put in the time and effort to better your relationship is essential!
Yes. We have found that the most effective way to develop a connection or heal a relationship is for both partners to be present.
This is a facilitator-led guided online or in-person mentoring program. The program is structured into 12 sessions about 60-90mins each, one per week, which includes personalized assessments, individual conversations, conjoint conversations, and exercises to be performed as a couple.
Online sessions are facilitated via a secured private virtual meeting room like Zoom, and in-person sessions are facilitated at TLT’s space in Bangalore.
We are flexible between 7 AM to 9 PM IST. Sessions are scheduled at a mutually agreed upon time, Sundays and public holidays included.
Each session with the mentor would be around 60-90 minutes. Some of the exercises are done during the sessions, while some are to be accomplished as a couple in between sessions at your comfort and time.
No, for online conjoint sessions, you can join from different locations too. Needless to say, for in-person conjoint sessions, both of you are needed to be present.
Yes. This program has helped couples, who are planning to get married (arranged or love), understand and know each other better, recognise their own and each others’ dreams, aspirations, fears, and expectations. It has also helped them set realistic expectations of marriage – after the honeymoon period.
For you to get the best experience of this program, you must have a basic computer or mobile device and internet skills. You should be able to use a web browser, such as Chrome or Firefox, and keep it updated to the most recent version.
You can email us (team@thelittlethings.org.in) or call us (9980082365) to reschedule your program start to a later date.
Cancellation request to the program registration should be sent via an email to team@thelittlethings.org.in or via a call to 9980082365. Please read the Cancellation And Refund Policy included in the Terms of Service agreement for more details.