Marriage Preparation

Personalized One-to-One Premarital Mentoring
for Couples Contemplating Marriage, or are Engaged

About the Program

Now that you are in a serious relationship or engaged and soon be married, you tend to look at the voyage ahead of you with lots of enthusiasm and sometimes with a little bit of skepticism. As you decide to set off on this ship together, as life partners, there are many new adventures you would explore. While some may be familiar routes that you easily cruise through, some others may give you the jitters of sailing in the unknown waters. Research points out that the biggest struggle during the first few years of marriage is due to unmet expectations. There is also much research available on couples, demonstrating that successful marriages are ones that use healthy relationship skills on an everyday basis.

The Premarital Preparation Program is a one-of-its-kind personalized online one-to-one mentoring program for couples who are contemplating getting married. It offers a safe and non-confrontational space for you and your partner to mutually understand the dynamics of ‘us’ in your relationship while embracing the ‘me’. It nudges you to delve deeper into your desires and ambitions and set clear expectations for each other on your journey together. It also helps you recognize areas where you can adapt to each other’s needs without dissolving your identity with techniques tailor-fit to your specific emotional and personal needs.

 

The guided conversations in this program will help you lay a strong foundation in your relationship by helping you discover each other deeply. It will also equip you with the essential relationship skills you both need as you turn a new leaf into your relationship as a couple.

 

This program is based on the science of intimate relationships and years of research-backed frameworks that are, derived, from what actually works in a thriving relationship and not based on general, idealistic projections of what a relationship should be. It includes personalized assessments of the couple’s relationship dynamics, stress maps, personality, strengths, growth areas, and much more.

 

Every Little Thing Counts

YOUR RELATIONSHIP WELLNESS MATTERS

Who's it for?

Dating To Marry

Couples in a serious relationship
who plan to get married

Engaged To Marry

Engaged couples
waiting for the wedding day!

We've Got You Covered!

PROVEN PRACTICAL SKILL-BASED METHODOLOGY BACKED BY DECADES OF RESEARCH

What To Expect?

Discover Expectations

Discover, articulate, and discuss your and your partner’s expectations, explore strengths and growth areas in a gentle and fun way to ensure smoother sailing in your foundation years as a married couple.

Understand Each Other’s Family of Origin

Learn how each of you has been shaped in your families of origin, discover your respective family backgrounds, and how they influence and shape your personality and views. It also helps you understand how to build your own family traditions.

Develop & Maintain Friendship

Discover how to blend fun and friendship into your marriage for decades. Find out what is important to you both and develop unity as a couple.

Understand Emotional, Physiological, Sexual Needs Leading to Intimacy

Learn how man’s and woman’s emotional and physical needs or expectations differ. Explore healthy ways to talk about your sex and intimacy feelings. Discover the magic of emotional intimacy and how that leads to more meaningful physical intimacy.

Personality and Communication

Discover each other’s personalities and become aware of your own and your partner’s communication style, which will help you bridge any gaps effectively in the future. Learn ways to turn towards each other rather than turning away, using simple tools and techniques to strengthen your communication skills in your relationship.

Conflict Management

Learn how to identify and address each other’s conflict and stress areas. Find out how to be empathetic towards your partner’s feelings, and also feel heard, respected, and understood yourself. You will understand how to resolve conflicts less stressfully and, in the process, grow closer.

Money Matters

Discover what money means to each other, money habits, learn skills to talk through money topics, establish roles and responsibilities, comfortably discuss concerns regarding finances & learn how to budget, plan, and manage your finances as a couple from day one.

Protecting Your Marriage

Learn to identify potential threats to your relationship and understand how to address areas that might make you and your relationship vulnerable. There are issues such as taking each other for granted, loneliness, infidelity, separation, and divorce, which need to be addressed appropriately in case a need arises.

Shared Meaning and Goals

Learn to clearly articulate aspirations and dreams closest to your heart and, in the process, be able to establish your personal, couple, and family goals together with your partner.

Our Pledge to Your Privacy Protection

100% PRIVACY OFFERED THROUGH OUR TERMS OF SERVICE AGREEMENT

What happens through the 12-weeks?

Connect With
Your Mentor

Set personalized objectives
Schedule program plan
Get oriented

Customise
Your Program

Personalized assessment
Map relationship dynamics
Discover growth areas

Begin Dyadic
Conversations

Personalized dialogues
Fun insightful exercises
Prioritize actions

Thrive As Your
Team Of Two

Simplify your relationship
Review Progress
Thrive together

What Other Participants Had to Say?

Very practical in helping us understand things based on our own context


The day was amazing. The sessions on relationship management, financial stability and all the other activities made me understand my partner well – how I think, what she feels and how we both can merge our thoughts together. The team also was very practical in helping us understand things based on our own context. Thank you so much.

> Male, Soon to be Engaged, Attended the Offline Program

Well structured way of understanding someone who I need to be spending the rest of my life with


We were asked to attend this program by my fiancé’s sister. I felt it was more practical than sitting at a coffee shop and have conversations that may not give the actual context. This was indeed a more practical and structured way of understanding someone who I need to be spending the rest of my life with. The experience was amazing and beautiful. It made me to be in the real time and come out of my perceptions and apprehensions of marriage because I understood a lot of things about my future fiancé and I felt that I can see him more from a realistic point.

> Female, Soon to be Engaged, Attended the Offline Program

Feeling confident as I am getting into an arranged marriage


Ours is (going to be) an arranged marriage. Due to the pandemic, I could only meet him online because even the girl-seeing happened online. I was not too sure whether he and I are a good match. My mentor asked me to contact TLT who I believe she had referred to many of her students. This program helped me and my fiancé know each other much better. Feeling much more confident now and waiting for our wedding in January.

> Female, Soon to be Married, Attended the Online Mentoring Program

Flexible Payment Options

TO HELP EASE YOUR INVESTMENT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

How to Get Started?

Connect

CALL or WHATSAPP us at 9980082365 to connect with our marriage wellness mentor.

Schedule

Customize your mentoring needs, and schedule your program start date.

Start

Get started!

We understand that you may have further questions about the program. You may probably find the answer in the FAQ section below.

If you would like to have a conversation to clarify any specific questions you may have, we are available on WhatsApp Chat for your convenience.

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Frequently asked Questions

You will find the answers to some of the most frequently asked questions about this program below. If you did not find the answer you were looking for, please write to us at team@thelittlethings.org.in and we’ll get in touch with answers.

These are the two prerequisites:

  1. That you are in a committed relationship currently.
  2. That you can converse in English.

This is a program designed for couples to work together to form their team-of-two, hence you and your partner’s willingness to put in the time and effort to better your relationship is essential!

Yes. We have found that the most effective way to develop a connection or heal a relationship is for both partners to be present.

This is a facilitator-led guided online or in-person mentoring program. The program is structured into 12 sessions about 60-90mins each, one per week, which includes personalized assessments, individual conversations, conjoint conversations, and exercises to be performed as a couple.

Online sessions are facilitated via a secured private virtual meeting room like Zoom, and in-person sessions are facilitated at TLT’s space in Bangalore.

We are flexible between 7 AM to 9 PM IST. Sessions are scheduled at a mutually agreed upon time, Sundays and public holidays included.

Each session with the mentor would be around 60-90 minutes. Some of the exercises are done during the sessions, while some are to be accomplished as a couple in between sessions at your comfort and time.

No, for online conjoint sessions, you can join from different locations too. Needless to say, for in-person conjoint sessions, both of you are needed to be present.

Yes. This program has helped couples, who are planning to get married (arranged or love), understand and know each other better, recognise their own and each others’ dreams, aspirations, fears, and expectations. It has also helped them set realistic expectations of marriage – after the honeymoon period.

For you to get the best experience of this program, you must have a basic computer or mobile device and internet skills. You should be able to use a web browser, such as Chrome or Firefox, and keep it updated to the most recent version.

You can email us (team@thelittlethings.org.in) or call us (9980082365) to reschedule your program start to a later date.

Cancellation request to the program registration should be sent via an email to team@thelittlethings.org.in or via a call to 9980082365. Please read the Cancellation And Refund Policy included in the Terms of Service agreement for more details.